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Why are they destroying my life?

My mom stated that we were going to have family counseling which i didnt care about that much, but i just got a letter saying quote "we have been authorized by your insurance blah blah blah....to administer its managed mental health program. As such, we are responsible for reviewing mental health and/or substance abuse treatment to ensure that it is medically necessary and appropriate for payment purposes." Then it said procedure Diognostic interview exam and Ind Tx W/o Med Eva/mgt-45-50 min. I AM PERFECTLY ALRIGHT I AM NOT NOR HAVE EVER USED DRUGS OR ALCOHAL! I HAVE FRIENDS WHO LOVE ME AND IM I TONS OF CLUBS AT SCHOOL! I am fine its my parents who are sick....they threw me out of the house, out of the car too and made me walk 2 miles uphill, they used to hit me, they blame everything on me and my little sister never!!!! They literally never let me go out, and the one time they do they purposely humiliate me! Im so young...just a freshman in hs....i have the whole world to look forward too, but i want to enjoy my youth and they are taking it away from me! now this!!! I dont want somebody shoving anitdeppressents down my throat or giving me unnessesary blood tests! im just a girl who rebels against the worlds worst parents! please i need advice, i cant do this anymore. Funny thing...my parents hate my friends, my all honors classes arent good enough, they hate the clubs im in, and yet they turn off the internet so that i cant do hw. THEY DONT MAKE SENSE EVERYTHING IS TO MAKE ME MISERABLE impossible blah blah blah... lol i agree but u dont know my parents....they would probably make me go and take those goddamn drugs...ahhhh if only i were 18. and Gypsy Red hmhm. u think im overexageratin......social services has come to my house on several occasions so dont act like u know me. we cant all have 3.5 children and the perfect life oh my mom said that she wanted us to have family counseling but i got a letter about individual mental evaluation and counseling i forgot to point that out she doesnt support them...she never takes me home from them my aunt has too because my mom refuses...she belives i should be "studying" ya shes one of those moms. does anybody get that me and my parents DO NOT COMMUNICATE except when they come up with a new ridiculous rule like...the hot water turns off at 930. we yell...and by we i mean my parents yell at me then i yell back....then they scream and tell me thats y i have no friends and that nobody will ever like me in real life, that i have a terrible personality that nobody likes. I AM NOT THE TYPE TO SIT THERE AND WATCH.

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1. maybe you could give counseling a try. sometimes it's good to talk to someone and then you'll feel better. they won't diagnose you until after you talk with a counselor and anyways that doens't mean you'll have to take antidepressants. and if you do you can always quit counseling and refuse to take the pills. good luck!
2. I think you may be over exaggerating just a tad. If your mom and dad are concerned enough about your behavior that they think you need counseling then there's something going on you aren't saying. Besides, chill out, the first part of the letter simply states that your insurance has approved of that doctor to be your counselor and the tests are standard procedure. If you're not doing drugs then you have nothing to loose. And just because you go to family counseling doesn't mean that the counselor will put you on any type of drugs but by the way you have over reacted to an acceptance letter, maybe you should rethink that. Just go and be open minded and truthful. Besides, if your parents are the problem, the counselor will figure that out. What do you have to loose? Red
3. your parents don't seem like there treating you fairly at all why don't you try speaking to another family member about this and show them the letter. or you could tell a teacher or maybe one of your friends parents that your unhappy living there and how there making you feel. hope this helps good luck.
4. Hey Kiddo, you say you're a rebellious teengirl and that your mom wants to have FAMILY counseling. If she was as bad as a parent as you described, she wouldn' t be looking at counseling for the whole pack. And if they hated the many clubs you're in, they most likely wouldn't support your being in them. Be a good child and support your mom's effort to pull the family together. This is one of those things you should not rebel against, but acknowledge it's a positive initiated by your mom. A licensed practitioner will not shove pills down your throat if you are not depressed. So, don't sweat that part. Keep up the good job at school.
5. As you say it's your parents who are sick then why are you wanting to rebel from getting them help, You have a problem in your life whether it's you or your parents whos to say but family couseling is just that, family couseling,and it is here to help the family as a whole not just one, why don't you give it a chance and what i mean by chance is to communicate, in session at least, take the advice of the dr, and really really listen with an open mind not a closed one.
6. Hmm. Well, I don't think your parents are the absolute worst. Number one. As stated before, if they are looking for family counseling, they know that there is a problem, and are willing to make it better. They are not out to get you like you seem to think. You say that you are in a ton of clubs and have good friends. Number two. If you can't look forward to going home, then at least save your optimism for the clubs and for your friends. You have to realize that if you so badly want to be happy, then you have to actually TRY. You also have to give them some credit - they obviously did something right as parents, as you say that you aren't using any sort of drugs or alcohol. For the rules such as "Hot water off at 9:30" and the such...Well, all families have their quirks. Everyone has their own little rules and idiosyncrosies. A lot of times, my father may be the one to break bad news. Either myself or my sister will respond as sympethetically as possible, "Wow, that's really sad. I'm sorry." Or something of the like, and he will immediately respond, "It's not funny, guys! It's just not funny!" So. Who knows with that. Those are really things that you just can't linger on. It's barely worth a fight over it. I don't blame you when you do not wish to keep taking pills. I dislike that as well. I understand that your parents and yourself do no communicate, and I understand that social services may have come to the house once or maybe twice (if they had to come over soooo many times, then I don't think that you'd still be living in your house). But hopefully with this Family Counseling, things will get better. I myself am...to be brutally honest...am near terrified of my parents, and it's not entirely out of the question that I soon may be put into Foster Care for a while. You just have to find a way to deal and cope. No amount of complaining will get you anywhere. It's called perserverance. By the way - speaking of complaining - I can understand where some people get the idea that you are overexaggerating. I almost tend to agree. The way you continue to put the blame on them (especially toward "typical teen" complaints like never going out, sister never getting the blame, etc.) tends to show that you are, in fact, overexaggerating. Perhaps you aren't telling us exactly why they punished you the way they did. After all, "it takes two to tango"... Look, if you are getting counseling and if you passed the Social Services, I think you should simply stop this behavior and pick yourself up. To be honest, I don't even know what the question is. Obviously I see the "Why are they destroying my life" up at the top, but that's somewhat....Well, I don't even know the proper word or phrase, but for the sake of politeness, I probably shouldn't mention it anyway. It's all about how you approach a situation that defines who you are, measures your courage, how others view you, and how the rest of your life plays out. Hmm... I don't think I have much else to say here. I wish you good luck with the counseling.