All Life Insurance Tips

How do I get REVENGE....Help?

I am so after revenge right now. I have taken enough bull crap for him for a whole year now. I have decided to give some of his own medicine back to him, but how do I? I am female and my cousin is male. He has been treating me terribly for the past year. I have given him free rides my whole life, by car and by materialistic things such as money and things like that. He was what I thought to be "like a brother" sort of thing because I "thought" we were close cousins....but evidently that changed. I am 6 years older than him. He just turned 18. If you do the math correctly you will get my age. Well about 6 months ago I had a fender bender and he was the passenger. Like usual taking him places....trying to make him feel better (he is what everyone calls a "loser") but I have NEVER called him that. I would help him gain his confidence by taking him to the mall every weekend to find social interaction.....not taking in the account that I am waisting my time....BUT I do love my cousin, its just the fact that when I was in the fender bender. We were fine, went the ER after we got home from the accident. He just had a bruise and I had neck pain. Well now he is suing ME and my insurance company. He has gotten this FANCY expensive lawyer and the letter I JUST got (the accident was 6+ months ago) saying that he not only went to the ER the day of the accident, but 3-4 weeks after he had all these bogus tests done on his back. Had to have rehab, MRI's and all sorts of stuff. The total bill is $16000+. The lawyer said in the letter I got that he has a herniated disc. WELL he has been treated for that problem BEFORE the accident. GOD i can't stand this. He has turned against me, frauding my insurance, making harrasing texts and phone calls. I have called my insurance and they said they got the same letter and they are looking into the situation. BUT I AM WANTING REVENGE. How can I make it hard on him like he is making it hard on me....? I can't take much pressure for this. THIS HAS been a terrible year for me. I know this sounds harsh, but I AM WANTING to pay for what he is doing. I could get a warrant for his arrest for insurance fraud, but that is the decision of my insurance company. I am wanting to personally do something. You just don't know how MUCH he has done to me....what kind of pain and suffering he has done to me. Well i am going to stop here....Please anyone able to give me tips, advice, help. ONLY serious responses and if you want to bash me and point fingers at me...DON"T even bother. 1 hour ago - 4 days left to answer. Additional Details He even has his own truck, but now to get to thinking he just bummed off of me......free ride and free gas to where ever he would like. MY stupid fault. I HAVE learned my lesson... 58 minutes ago Thanks Tamara. I feel so horrible now. He "says" if I don't pay that I would go to jail. Well that's the reason why I pay my car insurance. In case something like this happens. I have all sorts of evidence of him having back pains before the accident. And all the texts he has been sending me saying he getting a "free ride from my insurance." IDK when court will be if my insurance company follows through this case. 52 minutes ago Thanks for all your responses. It makes me feel like someone is actually on my side now. His parents are pushing him as well. My grandparents and my parents are BURNED at the fact that his parents are actually making him doing this. His parents has always been money hungry and are always looking for a law suit. Its just who they are.... 47 minutes ago His parents are making him, but he wants it the same.

Public Comments

1. I wish I could answer, but I cannot force myself to read all that.
2. what an asshole... make him realize what he has done to you... u will see what happens
3. Lawyer yourself up and find a counter suit, it will most likely make him back off. Sounds like he isn't much of a family member, and i would cut ties with him. Remember blood is important, but if it is only important you and not him, then you have to cut ties and forget about him. I think this is the most disturbing thing i have read yet. What a sh*t head cousin! if that doesn't work for you pretend to be friendly, tell him i know that you are a fraud and thats ok, say you want in. Get him to admit that is what he is doing, but make sure it's either in a text, or recorded. then go to the police. boom screwed royally.
4. ugh!! THATS HORRIBLE!!!!!!! ok, no more free rides, shun him outta ur life. go to court, because u are SOOO innocent!! tell them about this, and how u know hes just lookingh for some way to make extra money, cuz hes a low-life LOSER!!!!
5. anyway, revenge is not the answer... but i like revenge too!!! by the way, my cuzin is younger than me, but gives me fresh comments, acts like a total jerk-face sometimes, and a ***** like his mom sometimes. but sometimes we really bond and connect and laugh at each other or with each other and we have lots of things in common(me:girl, and cuzin is a boy) soooooooooo... sue him for treating you like this or something. anyway, wht he did was just pure evil. treat him like a piece of crap!!!! i do tht to my cuzin and he's like realizing the picture AFTER 1 YEAR!!!!!!!
6. Shank Him